25 Ideas to Spice up Date Night
Need a little help in getting the sizzle out of your relationship again? Once you’re done testing these ideas, you’ll both be so hot, there’ll be no holding back.
- Text the romance back – yes, sounds simple, but it’s often the simple things that are most effective!
- Play 30 questions to ask your spouse/partner – chill with some wine and get to know each other again. If you find this too serious, you might want to try the version below…
- 30 questions to ask your spouse/parnter (Dork edition) – play this one after you have finished all of the wine.
- Get an impromptu pleasure kit – start playing out your own Fifty Shades in the boudoir.
- Take a romantic bath for two – give yourselves a couple of hours to unwind together.
- Give massage a new meaning with this LELO Magic Wand – just like a day spa at home (ok so it also has other uses, but it is a great massager first and foremost!)
- Give a massage with some bling! How about massage oil with 24k gold flakes?
- Paint your date…with chocolate. Melt your own or buy some ready made chocolate paint.
- Stargazing – oh the memories…I did this with a boyfriend years and years ago. It’s a great excuse to make out under the stars…
- Eat dinner in the dark – what happens after dinner is up to you.
- Share an orgasm with a couples vibrator you can both enjoy at the same time.
- Act out your partners fantasies – having discovered them after the 30 questions game you know now what they are – so indulge them!
- Don’t have any fantasies? No worries, try these suggestions from iVillage.
- Cook up a candlelight feast for two.
- Play strip poker or strip chess (a personal fav.) or strip scrabble…whatever takes your fancy.
- Have an adult picnic in bed, with strawberries and champagne.
- Learn how to slow grind with each other with this how to video (it’s a dance, not a sex move.)
- Book a night in a local hotel, don’t tell your partner, surprise them after dinner at home.
- Make it a routine, with monthly ideas and reminders from the lovely people at DateNight.is.
- Go parking. Yep, just like a horny teenager, make sure your car has a blanket, pack some vino and off you go.
- Have your own private costume party. Break out the french maids outfit and get into some saucy role play.
- Full moon? Hire a boat for the night and skinny dip in the light of the full moon.
- Have a porn night (sorry, no links out, but it’s not hard to find your own). Men in particular love this, so if you ladies suggest it you will get massive bonus points.
- Take turns sketching and posing for each other naked.
- Try out some Kama Sutra moves.