5 Tips to Have More Sex With your Wife
From mother of two, wife, Elle Black, Founder of Mimi De Luxe
1. Schedule it in
So it doesn’t sound very sexy, but if you can both agree on a day and rough time, then your chances of having sex with your wife increase by about 75%. Don’t make it too late, like after 10pm either. The earlier the better (after the kids are soundly asleep of course!).
2. Encourage her to have regular orgasms on her own
I know you want her to have orgasms with you, but if she regularly (2-3 times a week) orgasms alone she will feel in the mood more often. Just like energy creates energy, orgasms create orgasms. You can get her a vibrator to help her out.
3. Make sure she is satisfied first
If you, like 99% of the population, don’t both reach orgasmic climaxes together during sex, make sure she comes before you. That might mean you spend half an hour bringing her to orgasm and then you have sex for 10 minutes, but at least you both get to come. And it will keep her coming back for more.
4. Be nice
And I don’t mean do the washing up or put the kids to bed. But on the day you want to have sex, try not to fight. Bonus points if you can flirt with each other. Build up the sexual tension – remember what that is?! You can also run her a deep bath and leave her in peace for about 30 minutes. It will clear all tension and having done something for herself she will be more receptive to doing something for you.
Play a naughty boardgame, have sex in a different room, use a sex toy, try a different position, try different places on her body to stimulate her. Just because you’ve been together for a long time doesn’t mean you’ve perfected the art of lovemaking.
Do women want to have more sex with their husbands?
“Most women want to have more sex with their husbands, but they feel worn out and their libido is usually MIA,” said Elle Black, founder of Mimi De Luxe, working mum of two and wife. She’s discovered what gets her in the mood is regular orgasms on her own and a pre-sex routine of scheduling, flirting and bath. Help your wife find a sexual routine that puts her in the mood, returns her libido and she’ll be wanting to have more sex with you.
This advice is not just for married couples, it is for any man who is in a relationship and doesn’t feel like he is getting enough sex.
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