We are often being asked by gentleman what would my wife/girlfriend/partner like for a birthday present/anniversary/I love you present. So, to assist you lads we’ve put together a gift guide to seduce and woo your woman. If you are still not sure about what to get her, email us at email@example.com and tell us a bit about her so we can help identify the perfect sexy gift.
And if you are wondering why we’ve crossed through the picture of the sexy babe, it’s because you are not buying red lingerie for your partner. Remember boys, you’re not buying it for your fantasies, you are trying to understand hers!
This is the most popular request we get. I think it’s really sweet you men are thinking of your woman’s pleasure, even if you are secretly thinking it will help you get more sex. There is one warning I pass on to you before you go looking at sex toys. Rabbit vibrators. You’ve heard of them, Sex in the City made them famous and they are your direct competition. Make no mistake. I read time and time again about men who purchased a rabbit vibrator for their partners and now their partners don’t have as much sex with them because they are having orgasms with their rabbit. Perhaps if you were going away for work or an extended vacation with the boys you might want to offer up a rabbit as compensation, but if you are thinking of improving your shared sex life there are much better options.
Take the We Vibe, a couples vibrator made to wear making love, that is the official tagline, but we know you just want to get down and dirty, or as one of our customers stated on their gift card “can’t wait to f#@k you wearing this”. The We Vibe is worn by the woman and has a remote control to adjust vibration settings and speed. The helpful people at We Vibe have even put together a manual with 33 suggested positions of use, work your way through those and you are sure to find one you both enjoy.
Our Swedish designer friends LELO have entered the couples vibrator scene with the recently released LELO Tiani. Does your partner have a Miu Miu handbag, D&G sunglasses and spend far too long on Net-A-Porter? Yes – then this is the gift for you. Like the We Vibe, it comes with a remote control, only it uses different technology. Called SenseMotion, you can feel the vibrations your partner is experiencing through the disc shaped remote. Tiani really is a beautiful looking product, it is very flexible and your partner can enjoy Tiani on her own.
Whilst we are still on the subject of “love making”, an affordable way of spicing it up for your woman is to introduce a bullet vibrator into play. Using a bullet on the clitoris during “love making” is enough to make most woman reach orgasm, particularly good (and easy) if she is on top. At the lower end is the infamous silver bullet and at the upper end for the designer lovers is the LELO Mia, which is also USB rechargeable – very handy if you ever get stuck in a boring meeting…
Don’t forget you will need lubricant for all of the above. With all of the above it’s best to use a water based lubricant, only use the oil based if you are planning on having some underwater activities.
We probably should have started with foreplay, but what the heck, we’re here now. Vibrating panties. They are a sensational gift, you’ll both have a lot of laughs and if you can convince your partner to wear them out in public while you have the remote then you both are certainly in for a lot of fun. If you go out to niteclubs, raves, discotheques (oh that makes me think flares and affros) then invest in the Club Vibe. It can vibrate to the ambient music, we don’t mean ambient like “Ohmmm” and chanting stuff, ambient like the bass pumping at the discotheque (sorry, can’t stop saying that word now).
If you think your partner needs some down time, then you can’t go past a Kama Sutra Weekender Kit. This lovely little box has everything in it to pamper her with, honey dust and feather applicator, massage oil, love oil, pleasure balm and lubricant. Gwyneth Paltrow featured the Weekender Kit in her Valentines Day newsletter so it even has some celebrity endorsement…by the way, your partner will be the one getting the massages, not you!
Fifty Shades of Grey Toys
Has your missus read Fifty Shades of Grey? Did she make it to the second and third books? If so, then she would definitely be up for some Fifty Shades of Grey sex toys.
Items from the book that will earn you brownie points:
Kegel Balls, Love Balls, Kegel Beads, Ben Wa Balls – the main character gives his partner Ben Wa balls – these are balls that are used for exercising pelvic floor muscles and provide a little thrill while wearing them.
Suede Whip – there is a whole sex scene in the book with a leather flogger/whip. This is our tame version – it won’t do either of you any damage!
Blindfold – goes with just about all of the activities above – or make up your own activities.
Magic Wand – very popular in BDSM for providing mind-numbing orgasms. Generally used on a woman when she is tied up.