NOVICE

If you are new to sex toys then massagers are perfect for first time users as they are not intimidating. We would recommend the bullet vibrators, We-Vibe Tango or Rocks Off silver bullet to get started. If you don’t want to dive straight in the deep end with a vibe, then you could start with a blindfold, some handcuffs  and become a little bit submissive to your partner (or vice versa). Of course Nookii Adult Board Game is another great place to start – no one is intimidated by board game!

SOMEWHERE BETWEEN NOVICE & EXPERT

Lets call you someone who likes to experiment! If you already have the classic, LELO Gigi, then how about an entirely waterproof rabbit vibrator. Je Joue’s G-Ki G spot vibrator is a great one to try due to its super flexibility, making it a multi-purpose vibrator. If you’ve read Fifty Shades of Grey, then you might be ready to try something a little different. Arm yourself with a Feather Spanker, Suede Whip and some Pleasure Ties for some extra curricular activities. Don’t forget to throw in some luxurious water based lubricant.

EXPERT

What can we tell you that you don’t already know? We might suggest some Kegel exercisers like Je Joue Ami to really enhance your orgasms, or go one step and get a clitoral stimulator like the Womanizer which virtually guarantees to deliver an orgasm! Or maybe you want to try something different, like the Better than Chocolate. Vibrating panties are another fantastic choice for the woman who has everything. Have you got the designer equivalent of the Hitachi Magic Wand, LELO Smart Wand?

COUPLES

We have a special selection for you! If you don’t already own a couples vibrator to wear while making love, you can’t go past the best selling We-Vibe, or if you are looking to spice up your relationship the LELO Lyla can provide hours of teasing fun with your partner holding the remote. How can you go past a sensual massage with vanilla massage candle, or a dusting of chocolate body powder your lover can kiss off? We recommend Nookii Adult Board Game, perhaps one of you could hold a spanker and the other whip, just in case there is some misbehaving…

Tips for a better sexual experience

Firstly make sure you clean your sex toy. If your vibrator is waterproof then a wash in hot soapy water will do the trick. If not then use some antibacterial toy cleaning spray. You should clean your vibrator after each use.

Secondly, vibrators can really press your “sensitive areas” so unless you are already really excited (we mean wet), then we highly recommend using a lubricant. A water based lubricant will work well with all vibrators, and if you aren’t sure which lubricant to choose, we’ve got a guide to help you select the best personal lubricant. If you are planning some underwater activity with your sex toy then use an oil based lubricant.

Thirdly, whatever activity you partake in, make sure you and your partner feel comfortable throughout the entire process. Some people take a while to let their inhibitions go, so help out with some candles, soft, sexy music and then focus solely on what you are doing, without pressure or expectations.