So, you are now back on the singles market. Maybe you’ve had a rough time and still not over them, or maybe you can finally breath, either way, you’ve got a lot more me time. Let’s make the most of it.
What helps us recover quickest after a break-up is to get our confidence back, and as we are in the business of sexy, we’re going to talk about sexual confidence. Many women loose their sexual confidence if a relationship isn’t going well. We either become less interested in sex or less interested in the other party. Or if you’ve had the unpleasant experience of being dumped for no-apparent-reason then you might be wondering what you’ve done wrong and are doubting the feelings you experienced during the relationship. Just stop there. Nine times out of ten you have not done anything wrong, it is usually the other party thinking the grass looks much greener on the other side, or one of the other nine million and forty three thousand reasons men run away from relationships.
Now is a great time to get to know yourself again and figure out what makes you happy. And yes, we are talking about your sexual confidence. By working on your sexual confidence during this time you’ll be distracted by discovering what makes you feel powerful, what makes you feel satisfied, what makes you feel sexy and soon you’ll be oozing sex appeal and sexual confidence. Browse from our range of sex toys to find something that will make a sexual superpower!
1. Waterproof Vibrator
The most obvious place to get sexually satisfied is to pleasure yourself. But we understand this might not be every woman’s cup of Darjeeling. So start small. Start with age old rituals, like a one hour soak in a bubble bath, your bathroom full of candles and tea-lights and stream some relaxing music (http://www.last.fm/music/+free-music-downloads/chillout). Make sure you take your loofah and put on a face mask and really indulge. Put a clean fluffy towel nearby, ready for when you get out, and have some all over moisturiser on hand to massage into your body. Make it sexy, add a waterproof massager to the mix and explore parts of your body that have been much neglected.
And once you finish pleasing yourself in the bath, boost your sexual confidence by pulling together a great outfit and make yourself up. Even if it’s just going to the office, spending extra time getting ready can make all the difference. Start after your shower with some body shimmer powder, then your underwear – pick out a matching set, something a bit sexy. Then your favourite outfit. Finally to your make-up. You can’t go past some plumping lip gloss to make you feel like you have the most kissable lips on the planet. And a scent, pull out a perfume that you haven’t worn for ages (make sure it’s not off – most perfumes last around three years!) and do a light spritz. So how do you feel? Hopefully like Beyonce, now wiggle your butt and strut your new sexual confidence!
2. LELO Gigi
Lelo Gigi – one of the premier luxury vibrators that is an international best-seller. Gigi is a G-spot vibrator that will help you find your deep secret of female pleasure. Lelo Gigi has been consistently reviewed as a five star vibrator in sex stores around the world. QX Magazine calls it “The Rolls Royce of sex toys”.
3. Rabbit Vibrators
You can’t go past a rabbit vibrator for pure self indulgent pleasure. Do you remember the episode of Sex and the City where Charlotte discovered the rabbit vibrator and then didn’t want to leave her apartment for days? Well, technology has moved on since 1998 and whilst the pearl vibrator will still deliver a fantastic orgasm, you can now have something that looks as sexy as it performs. Look at the rabbit vibrator now.
5. The Womanizer/Satisfyer
The new clitoral stimulators will instantly make your forget all about your ex-partner. We bet they have the ability to make you orgasm faster than anyone else ever could either. Could they get you to orgasm in less than five minutes? This can!
Use with a dildo for a super satisfying feeling. When you’re finished you will feel all warm and fuzzy and dare we say…complete!
6. Doxy Wand
Who needs a partner for a massage? No one when they have a Doxy Massaging Wand. Unwind all that tension with an all over massager, you don’t need magic hands, just a powerpoint and off you go!
If you want a happy ending then Doxy will deliver it. But it’s your choice, Doxy won’t pressure you into it and say “but I gave you a massage so now we have to have sex.” You can just roll over and go to sleep if you wish.
Finally ladies, don’t forget to add lubricant when using a vibrator. As you are now looking after yourself, there is only one choice for lubricant. A quality water based lubricant. The purist lubricant around that won’t leave you with a yeast infection like many other lubricants, and will really enhance the performance of your vibrator.